On the Side | Brad Hicks
Over the years, I’ve published a few “anonymous” items in a newspaper, but the source was never anonymous to me. I’ve been sticking my neck out for far too long to think that others cannot do the same. But once in a special case comes along. To wit, I offer the following, submitted by a Montgomery County woman.
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Everyone always hears about the jobs that aren’t well done, but the jobs that are well done fade with the morning fog. That’s why I am writing this letter.
I have a son who is mentally ill. At times, he can become very violent and aggressive. I’ve had to call the Red Oak Police Department numerous times to help me keep my son safe, along with the rest of my family. They have always come, evaluated the situation, and gone above and beyond the call of duty to do that.
Above all, they have treated my son with respect and dignity at all times, even when I know, in other places, that wouldn’t have happened. Recently, Chief Justin Rhamy, Adam Smith, and a new officer talked to him for several hours with hope that their suggestion would help him have a better life. I have a great deal of admiration for the Red Oak Police Department, the sheriff’s office and the communications workers. The chief and other officers didn’t have to talk to my son that long that day. They could have said, “He is calm now, let’s go,” but instead they all showed that they cared and had some great suggestions for him.
As his mom, his safety, when he is being aggressive, is my top priority, along with keeping the rest of my family safe. I used to worry he would be hurt because of his aggressiveness; watching the officers talk to him, and listening to Justin, that fear is gone now. I know without a shadow of doubt that they will do everything they can before force is used.
My son didn’t ask to be ill. More than once, he said to me that “they could have used force, but talked to me instead.” I know he has respect for them, which is uncommon for someone with his diagnosis to realize.
From my entire family, I wanted to take the time to thank every officer who has come to my home and kept my family safe, and for being great with my son. I’m proud to live in a town where this happens.
Officers follow their leader, so I am especially grateful to Chief Rhamy. I would say “keep up the good work,” but that’s not necessary to tell them. “Thank you” doesn’t seem to be enough for what they are doing, but I say it with all of my heart.
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There are times when anonymity is important for a story to be told. I am sure there are other families in our area who can relate to this one.
Contact Brad Hicks at publisher@redoakexpress.com.